Commenting on other people’s blogs is indirectly responsible for me receiving over 2000 page views and directly accounts for more than 25% of my total traffic. It’s hard to ignore stats like that and as such I have documented the processes I follow and the strategies I use to grow my own blog traffic whilst making fantastic connections and building amazing relationships with my fellow webmasters. At the same time I have noted things that frustrate me when I am commenting on other blogs and outlined steps you should take to alleviate these potential issues on your own site.
The power of effective blog commenting is something that is often spoken about, and I believe this is because it is cost effective (well, ok it’s free but it does take time) and it is the only traffic generation method that builds trust and credibility, helps develop relationships, and fosters a sense of community at the same time.
Effective Blog Commenting Tips.
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Read the post!
I can’t believe I am including this but sometimes, although the comments are clearly NOT SPAM they have no relevance to the post itself! Once I had a reader reference something related to the post and a few comments later someone said how they liked reading about – and he referred to the reference not the post topic. LOL! E for Effort at least I suppose, but it highlights the importance of actually reading the post. One really insightful comment has more power than 100 spammy ‘great post’ comments any day.
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No one likes a smart arse or a brown nose
Be yourself and offer your opinion but don’t be a dick about it. On the flip side, there is no need to suck up to the blogger with over the top comments about how you loved their post. Most of them see straight through this anyway and it just makes you look like a spineless goodie goodie when your comment is viewed amongst the many valuable ones. I see this ALL THE TIME on the problogger sites. Remember; if you don’t like the post then don’t comment!
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Start swimming with the smaller Fish
Don’t get me wrong, following the highly influential blogs is fantastic as they continually pump out top notch content and are an amazing source of information, but if you want to build your own community and develop relationships in the blogosphere you need to start swimming with smaller fish. There is a no. of reasons for this including the sheer no. of comments and readers that the big fish have. How are you to stand out in this huge ocean? You are also a little fish so there’s no point trying to attract the attention of the Sharks. If however you engage with other smaller fish, not only do you stand out on their site and in the comments thread, but building your own school of smaller fish will put you in a much better position to be noticed by the sharks later on.
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Treat your own comment thread like a forum
The comments thread is not a one way street. You need to treat it like a forum and be constantly engaging with your readers and discussing points further. One of the best compliments I got was when a reader told me he had learnt more from my comment discussions than the post itself. Now that tells us something! This also has the advantage of helping to develop blog post ideas as questions are raised and the readers openly discuss their experience.
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Don’t Keep your Regulars Waiting!
Seriously! Don’t you trust me yet? In settings, allow those who have commented before to be automatically approved. This not only saves you time but it adds to the feeling of community and helps 
foster a sense of belonging with that reader. Besides this, I know when I am a regular contributor on a site and every new comment tells me it’s ‘awaiting moderation’ part of me gets a little annoyed and it takes away from that sense that I am contributing.
Think about it this way. When I go to my local coffee shop in the morning, they know my name and they know what coffee I drink and how I like it. This fosters a sense of belonging and even though I can get my coffee cheaper elsewhere, I go here for the service and because I am made to feel like more than just ‘another customer’. Make sure you foster this same sense of belonging in your readers. If you have your comments set so you have to approve everything, fix that now! Not doing this is indirectly telling your loyal readers that you still don’t fully trust them.
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But someone might leave negative comments!
I’m sorry but if you are approving every comment yourself because you want to make sure everything said is a glowing reflection of your awesomeness then ….well, you suck! First of all, unless one of your regulars is schizophrenic, I highly doubt they are suddenly going to turn on you. In fact, approve negative comments in general, they only reflect negatively on the commenter and if anything they help cement your position of authority. On a side note, the comments your regular readers will make in support will bring a good laugh or at least a smile.
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Reward your Commentators
While we’re on the subject of getting to know and trust our regulars, going one step further by rewarding them with an acknowledgement of their ongoing contribution is something I make sure I do, and recommend you do the same. The best way to do this is with the Top Commentators Widget Plug in (do a search in your plug in page) When you install it be sure to edit the settings so that it resets yearly or even never so that those who comment regularly are rewarded with that growing no. next to their (backlinked) name and gravatar. While I’m on this subject, if you currently have no follow set on your blog, rectify this immediately.
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Always continue the conversation
This is not just about responding to the comment within your own post thread. As I mentioned earlier, you need to treat your comments thread like a forum and be constantly engaging with your readers and discussing points further, but continuing the conversation goes one step further than that, and it is this extra step that can mean the difference between a one off discussion and a successful longterm relationship.
When someone comments on my post these are the steps I follow to make sure I continue the conversation:
- Respond to the comment, taking as much time as they took to leave it, ie: the more detailed and valuable the comment, the more detailed my reply.
- Visit the blog of the commentator and read their about page and go through one or two of their latest posts.
- Comment on their blog, making sure to reference something from their about page. (Stating facts that clearly show you have taken the time to get to know about them can do wonders for cementing this relationship and helping you stand out in the sea of readers and commentators.)
- Retweet and Digg any posts that particularly appeal to you. Everyone loves to share, this is the basis of blog commenting after all, so why stop with the comment? (Retweeting and sharing in general is another way of standing out in a sea of readers and commentators)
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Subscribe to the comments thread
Subscribe to follow-ups so you can see the response from the site owner. Sometimes their response may require a further point to add or question to ask and if you come back to respond again it has a lasting impact on the site owner and solidifies the genuineness of the engagement in the first place. TIP: DO NOT subscribe to the comments thread on the Big Blogging sites unless you want to receive followup comments into your inbox for years to come!
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Be Consistent
Thought you were getting to read about a traffic generation method that does not require consistent action? Sorry. Just like anything you do in life, consistency is the key and this is especially prudent when blog commenting. Effective Blog Commenting is about building relationships, not one night stands! Make sure you continue to develop and nurture this relationship through constant interaction and mutual respect.
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Be Mutually Respectful
Talking about being consistent has reminded me of the importance of mutual respect. Don’t act like you are all that, it’s not endearing and doesn’t help your cause. In fact, it’s the super affiliates and big names in the industry who are the last to big note themselves. Take a leaf out of their book and stop with the attitude already. If you are interacting with a blogger and you don’t feel there is mutual respect there, disengage.
That’s it really (he says 1300 words later!) Just remember to go out there, be yourself, have fun, don’t be afraid to ask for help, engage with others and then do it all again. A lot.
- What are your thoughts on blog commenting in general in regards to long term Return on Investment?
- Do you have any tips or strategies that you use to help with your Blog Commenting?
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I’m scared to comment now
I don’t see a place on your blog to email me back with updates? Actually it’s a good idea, but you’re right, it will flood an inbox and sometimes become overwhelming.
I don’t have a top commenter’s list on my site, but a blog roll instead. For the past couple days I’ve been considering changing that. Actually yesterday I deleted a few from my blog roll. After months of posting on their websites and they never post once on mine, I decided they no longer deserved the honor.
I agree about the awaiting moderation & it bugs me also. I’m used to seeing that if it’s my first post on a blog, but not after I’ve been posting awhile. Yes, there should be a level of trust at that point. Plus, comments can still be deleted ‘after the fact’.
Honestly, I could write a book about this subject, but you already did!
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 8:02 PM
Hey Scott, back in first I see! Nice. (lol) You are the king of blog commenting my friend, and regarding your blog roll, I love it! I use it to get to all those sites instead of my reader, it’s easier.
“Honestly, I could write a book about this subject, but you already did! ” HEY!… I’ll take that as a compliment
Yah, it’s a compliment! You’re site is awesome and I’ll take all the brownie points you give for kissing but. I’ve done more for less.
.-= Scott Barron´s last blog ..A Little Housekeeping Online =-.
Twitter: Brandon_Connell
June 5, 2010 at 1:04 AM
Lol Alex. Sorry man but do you have any idea how much spam I get by the time I wake up? Some of those get past the approval process because they have left comments in the past that were not really spam just to get past that “already commented” filter. Then I end up with 50 spam comments by morning. On top of that, I am a DoFollow blog and I don’t want to give the spammer that, even for a few hours.
but really? I suck?
.-= brandonconnell´s last blog ..Turning your blog income into multiple streams =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 8:04 PM
Ha ha ha, I was thinking of your site when I was writing that part too! Lol. but seriously man, I don’t really get rattled, I was just trying to make a point. I seem to be lucky with spam (touches wood) but if you have issues, well. You don’t suck for moderating comments, you suck if you do it simply to ensure every comment is positive.
Twitter: Brandon_Connell
June 6, 2010 at 5:22 AM
I wouldn’t moderate negative comments. I would do it traditional American style and tell them to go F themselves… all right in public for all to see
.-= brandonconnell´s last blog ..My marketing skinned the cat. OUCH!! =-.
Twitter: Brandon_Connell
June 5, 2010 at 1:04 AM
P.S. My comment is awaiting moderation… LOL
.-= brandonconnell´s last blog ..Turning your blog income into multiple streams =-.
Twitter: Brandon_Connell
June 5, 2010 at 1:09 AM
Fine! I fixed it and will try it your way. But if my blog ends up being spammed to oblivion, you are my new non-paid employee… Welcome to America. lmao
.-= brandonconnell´s last blog ..Turning your blog income into multiple streams =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 8:05 PM
LOL! DO it man! DO IT!…(oh, you just did – OK, good)
Twitter: TheJohnSoares
June 5, 2010 at 2:17 AM
Alex, great post.
One of the people I know and follow just wrote on Facebook about his dog dying. A woman wrote a comment and it was clear she hadn’t really read what he wrote. Bad time to be wrong.
I automatically approve everybody’s comments. Akismet get’s nearly all the spam, so it’s rarely a problem. I get an e-mail from Wordpress about every comment, which I then respond to.
.-= John Soares´s last blog ..Selling Information Products Weekly Reading =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 8:10 PM
Hey John, thank you.
Sorry for your friends loss and even more so for having to deal with ignorance on a social media level! That’s a new one. I have the same experience with you and Akismet gets nearly everything for me.
Thanks again for stopping by John, you are a fantastic example of someone who already does all of the above hence I can safely say- see you soon!
This is a true pillar content piece! This one will get linked to by other bloggers and hopefully featured and re-used by you too for years to come.
You’re approach is very similar to mine. I don’t subscribe to all the comments by email anymore though because I wasn’t able to keep up. I love the comment systems (Disqus and some others) where you can get an email when there’s a direct reply to your specific comment. That makes it easy to continue the conversation without drowning in comments.
.-= Jean Sarauer´s last blog ..6 Things That Get Easier About Blogging if You Just Keep Going =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 8:15 PM
True pillar content you say? hmmm, you’d know too! Then that means…WOO HOO! Ok sorry, where was I?
I love Disqus for that same reason but have not added it here because I think it might turn some away as it adds an ‘exclusivity factor’ and also makes it a little more technical. But if others have it, then as you said – awesome!
In reference to the post, I was actually thinking of you and your 100 and something comments that you have left on the infopreneur. net and how it was that reason alone that prompted me to visit your site. If it worked for me, it must work for others somewhere – so I added it.
Thanks for the inspiration and the idea Jean!
Talk soon
I totally agree with Jean. This is a pillar content piece, worthy of Stumbling. Hint, hint everyone!
Blog Angel a.k.a. Joella´s last [type] ..Give Your Blog Wings With Creative Content
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 7, 2010 at 10:20 AM
Hey Joella! Thanks for stopping by, you have a really nice looking blog, love the name too! Thanks for the hints – are you other people listening to Joella?!?!
Twitter: kruby
June 5, 2010 at 3:54 AM
Hi Alex,
A very informative post with tons of useful & actionable information. I agree that it’s really important to read the entire post before commenting. I’ve had some people leave comments and it’s not even addressed to me! They are obviously just going through the motions of leaving comments on as many sites as they can.
Regarding the moderating feature of comments. I used to moderate and approve every single comment. I’ve since turned that feature off and only approve new comments by new readers now. What a difference that makes! It frees my time up considerably and I when I check my site, I get a little happy surprise when I see a new comment that I didn’t know about it. So, this is a great tip. Plus, I know that when my comment is automatically approved at other sites, it makes me feel better. I’ve had instances where I’ve commented and it did never show up! Not sure if it got lost or not approved.
I dislike subscribing to comments as I hate receiving tons of email, but this helps a lot of people have deeper connections between readers and writers. I do go back to most of my comments as I track them, but I don’t subscribe to comments. Each to their own.
Karen
.-= Karen´s last blog ..Five Ways To Add Connection To Your Life =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 8:20 PM
Hi Karen.
You bring up some fantastic points, in fact they are all valid and relevant. I agree whole heartedly and I guess that is the reason I created the post but didn’t reference any of these points! Thank you for adding these valuable points to the comments thread(thus confirming the validity of the post as well)
I only subscribe to the comments thread if there is a low average comment no. on each post. Soon as I see that no. approaching 100 anywhere I definitely don’t subscribe. I made the mistake of subscribing to a problogger post and I STILL get comments emailed to me! Oh well ,lesson learned.
Good to see you again Karen.
Twitter: jblack2012
June 5, 2010 at 4:26 AM
Alex,
This is one of your best posts yet. Very concise, and it was super cool of your to share your “secrets” of commenting with the rest of the world. I use a similar tactic as well, but I have to admit that I need to get into the re-tweeting business a little more.
-Joshua Black
The Underdog Millionaire
.-= Joshua Black | The Underdog Millionaire´s last blog ..Copywriting Critique of the World’s Worst Salesman =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 7:38 PM
Hey Joshua! Thanks so much man! That’s awesome of you to say about the post and I know you use a similar tactic because you were the first person to ‘continue the conversation’ on my blog after I visited yours -so I suppose a thankyou is in order. Always good to have you here Under Dog!
Oh, and if you want to practice the ReTweeting, start here
If I tell you nice post, does that mean I’m sucking up to the host? Anyways, who knew that there were 17 things I needed to know with blog commenting. I just read a post and comment. Maybe that’s why I’m still working my 9 to 5 and you’re not!
.-= Mike Roosa´s last blog ..Above The Fold: Making Good Use Of Every Pixel On Your Blog =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 7:26 PM
LOL! Yeah ya slurp. You say you read a post and comment but considering the way you interact with me and others on the blogosphere, I’d say you already have it all down pat mate. Thanks for stopping by Mike.
Personally, Mike, I find a little sucking up can be a pleasant experience. At least when it’s aimed in my direction.
As for you pleading ignorance about blog commenting – Haha! I read your comments on my blog and others almost daily. You know what you’re doing. Quit feigning ignorance or pretending innocence.
We all see right through you.
Blog Angel a.k.a. Joella´s last [type] ..Give Your Blog Wings With Creative Content
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 7, 2010 at 10:19 AM
LOL! Yeah Mike Geeeez
Alex,
I built most of my readership, and got all my guest posts, via commenting. I think everything you say here is right on. And I thought it was my secret process:). Seriously, although commenting is a slow and steady way to grow, it has the extra benefit of introducing you to all kinds of terribly talented people.
.-= LPC´s last blog ..Would You Like To Win A Copper-Clad Omelette Pan? =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 7:22 PM
Hey Skye(?) That’s really great information to know, thankyou for sharing that, more motivation for future blog commenting campaigns! You also have it in one with your last comment. I have met some of the most amazingly talented and motivated people in the short time I have been blogging! Thanks again for your comments and for stopping by.
Hi Alex, I am new to all this, but just wanted to say how much I enjoyed reading your post. It was very well-written, and filled with tons of great content. I learned a lot that I didn’t even know about…I will be following your info from now on! Great to meet you!
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 5, 2010 at 7:19 PM
Hey Summer, I’m really glad that you enjoyed the post! I have been going since mid Feb this year so it won’t take long before you settle into your own rhythm and it will feel second nature to you. (ha ha, says the wise 4 month old blogger)
Thanks for stopping by and look forward to our next conversation.
Nice to meet you to Summer.
Twitter: icebluebanana
June 6, 2010 at 2:16 AM
Hey Alex,
I had to laugh about your first point – it does seem like some comments have been left without ever having read the post… Its just so weird.
Anyway, I like that you wrote a bit about negative comments. I sometimes feel disappointment when I write something that I think is interesting (and therefore could be viewed as completely stupid or incorrect) and then everyone just agrees. I would actually like some (respectful) debate. That may go back to your first point, though.
I agree with the no follow thing – I currently use the “Follow My Links” plugin for getting rid of the no follow attribute.
I don’t really have a commenting strategy. Generally, I leave 5 or so a day if I find posts that I think are worth commenting on (time permitting, of course). I really do read the posts, mostly because I want everyone to really read mine (I was raised in a religious family where “Do unto others as you would have done to you” was repeated a few times a minute). Also, I tend to read the comments – I think that reading other people’s points of view can be amazing when there are good commentators (as above – Scott, Jean, Karen, Brandon, John, Mike, etc – Its likes a who’s who of great newer blogs).
BTW, A+ on the pictures in this one. I laughed a while because of them and now I am late for a graduation party… Have a great day!
.-= mark´s last blog ..This Week on The Web – 3rd of June, 2010 =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 6, 2010 at 12:51 PM
Hey Mark. Firstly sorry that my blog is so awesome that it made you late for Grad party. hee hee. (btw, you get there on time in the end?)
I am not sure what plug in I use, I just think there was a setting somewhere in Thesis theme that allowed me to change it, better go and confirm that I’m actually a do follow blog now!
In regards to negative comments, I was mainly referring to your own posts, but you make a good point and I did not even go into that side of things. Leaving ‘interesting’ comments or severe points of view on other blogs are a great way to generate conversation and debate, you are right! And if it starts happening on your blog – even better!
Thanks for your comments Mark, they are always enjoyable to read – I think you have this thing figured out my friend.
Twitter: websitebegin
June 6, 2010 at 3:37 AM
“But someone might leave negative comments!”
When you said that, I instantly sided with you. I almost encourage some negative comments because it SPARKS interaction. You’ll never write an article where people always agree/disagree. There is ALWAYS a mix of emotions! Great post, Alex.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 6, 2010 at 12:52 PM
Thanks Joe! SO true isn’t it. I am still waiting for the day I manage to write a post or someone comments that sparks a full scale war on my thread. That would be awesome!
Thanks for your comments Joe, good to see you again (very) young man.
Haha, I love the paragraph under “Read the post!” The part where someone thought he was making a valid comment only for you to discover that it had nothing to do with the post itself is hilarious. I think I’ve gotten a couple of those too.
I totally agree with the part on waiting. I don’t like to see my comment go through moderation when I have been a regular contributor to the site. It kind of makes me not feel a part of the blog, so good point with that. I also enjoyed your part on staying consistent. You can’t just expect to do it one day and give up because the bloggers will know that you’re not really interesting in making a connection or relationship with them. It’s important to stay consistent just like an other good habit in life.
My thoughts on blog commenting is to not take it too serious but to have fun. There is “tons” of good information out there and it’s a great opportunity to learn and help you grow. Some tips for blog commenting is to be a good reader. This doesn’t mean you have to take an hour to read a blog post; but try to focus on reading efficiently everytime so you can get the most out of the time and knowledge. It will also help you with you reading future blog posts better.
Was this post too long? Not really, but I think my comment was too long.
.-= Hulbert Lee´s last blog ..Greg Blencoe – Hydrogen Car Specialist, Law of Attraction Coach, and Blogger of Positive Waves Baby (Interview) =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 6, 2010 at 12:54 PM
Hey Hulbert. Good to see you man, and you raise a good point about having fun. If blog commenting becomes a chore then you are either not doing it right or you have been at it for too long. Enjoy the experiences, the learning, and the interactions and as you reiterated – do it a lot!
Was your comment too long? Never, but saying so made me laugh!
Twitter: darrenlcarter
June 6, 2010 at 11:31 AM
Hey Alex,
Another great post! And no it wasn’t too long. You do a good job formatting your posts so they are very readable. Is this done with just the Wordpress formatting?
I think these are really great tips. People need to keep in mind that a huge part of blog commenting is building community through it. The only way to do that is to…become part of the community. I do a lot of these same techniques. especially making sure to respond to each comment. And the top commentators widget is awesome. I don’t know for a fact that it works but it sure seems too encourage blog commenting (just look at the infopreneur.net)
Thanks for the good post.
Peace,
Darren L Carter
.-= Darren L Carter´s last blog ..Experiments in Lifestyle Design: Internet Business from Rural Japan =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 6, 2010 at 12:58 PM
Hey Darren, thanks for your kind words, and I’m glad the formatting is paying off. No matter what I do, I cannot keep posts under 1000 words, so my formatting is the only way I can get you all to read through!
Yeah I write the post in word and then do all the formatting within wordpress once I have control V’d it all across.
You have it spot on with the part about community, and it’s funny you mention the infopreneur because that’s what encouraged me to add it to the list. In fact it was Jean’s awesome amount of comments there that prompted me to visit for the first time – so I guess it does work then!
Thanks again Darren, always a pleasure to read your comments!
Hey Alex, I’m new to your site but love this post. I’m a newbie commenter in general and at first felt like the awkward new kid asking the other kids to play, but the more you do it, the more friends you make. I’ve discovered some amazing bloggers, simply because they’re commenting where I’m commenting. I think you’re bang on in your advice — be respectful, read the darn thing, and engage. Nice.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..7-Week Life Cleanse: Gathering Ease & Flow in Week 3 =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 6, 2010 at 10:36 PM
Hi Katie, it’s great to meet you and I’m really glad you stopped by! Why? because I really really like this comment! You have pinpointed the exact reason I wrote this post in the first place, not because of the traffic but because of the people I met commenting where I was! You also use the phrase ‘bang on’ which as far as awesome phrases go is well, bang on. I like how you summed up 1300 words in your last sentence too(seriously), that was nicely done.
Thanks again for visiting, hope to see you around these here parts again.
Twitter: tnsblog
June 6, 2010 at 6:43 PM
Hey Alex,
Woww… super awesome kick-ass Post man. You have mentioned some awesome and effective tips about blog commenting. I think Blog commenting is one of the awesome and easiest way (at least for me) to get targeted traffic, link… etc etc.. !!
Really this is a awesome post, on how to write quality comments.
Thanks for sharing this great Post. Kick-ass work man.. Keep it up.
~Dev
.-= Dev | Technshare´s last blog ..Technshare Monthly Report 3: May 2010 =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 6, 2010 at 10:21 PM
Ha ha thanks Dev! That was an awesome comment! (Ilove that word) Thanks for sharing your thoughts and it’s nice to know others are successfully driving traffic this way.
I agree with Joshua here (just to prove I read the comments too!) that this is a great post. Some very pertinent strategies here.
A quick comment about the comment threads and the big blogs. I notice that they don’t use it? (eg Problogger) Makes no sense to me.
I stayed at a hotel last year for my birthday. The service was awful so I wrote a blog post about it (as they never responded to the complaints I made) and funnily enough it didn’t take the hotel very long to comment on the blog post. It’s a post that Google brings visitors to time and time again.
Certainly I get a lot of traffic to my blog from commenting on other sites, yours included. So the strategies definitely work.
Thanks for sharing.
.-= Matthew Needham´s last blog ..How Outsourcing Can Make an Entrepreneur a More Productive Business Person! =-.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 6, 2010 at 10:24 PM
Hey Matthew! Hahaha that’s an awesome story about the hotel and the blog post! Probably did more to improve customer service than anything in the establishments history too so nice work there man! (that’s a clever way to bring organic traffic to your site too -nice)
Thanks for your comments Matthew, chat soon.
I think you’ve got a good list here. And I just want to respond the the item regarding negative comments.
Wordpress in particular makes it easy to release a user from moderation after you have approved their first comment. This lets you screen out the human spammers and gives regular users instant approval after they leave their first comment on your site.
As for negative comments… some of them are legitimate. Not everyone will agree with everything you say. And a little controversy is a good conversation starter. If someone does go totally ballistic and off the wall, make contact with them and see if they have a real beef. Then deal with it appropriately.
If they are just a nut bar, then you can ban them from then on and remove any offending comments. I highly doubt this is going to be problem that most bloggers will have to deal with very often anyway.
Blog Angel a.k.a. Joella´s last [type] ..Give Your Blog Wings With Creative Content
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 7, 2010 at 10:22 AM
LOL @ Nut bar, that’s awesome. IN regards to is* someone goes mental, last time that happened to a friend and so he took the guys email address and proceeded to opt in to every single list he could find using the name ‘dickhead’ LOL! That would have annoyed him to no end!
Thanks for stopping by and commenting Jo, talk soon!
Hey Alex,
Very comprehensive post about blog commenting, and I totally agree with you because I am living proof also that it’s a great way to build a community, trust and traffic all at the same time.
As I read more of your posts, I can see how fast your community is growing and of course I also learned from you how to blog commment the proper way! I’m wondering how this has compared to other types of social media like Facebook and Twitter that you use?
About the spam thing, after reading other people’s concerns, I do agree that it’s best to allow previous commentors to be allowed to post without moderation as I find that rewarding your regulars vs worrying about the odd spammers is worth the risk. The type of blog you have and who you are tend to attract like minded people anyway, so that kind reflects in the comments made
Keep up the great posts Alex. Lovin them!
Bailey
Bailey Ing´s last [type] ..Why did the Internet Marketer Cross the Road? Wanna Find Out?
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 7, 2010 at 10:19 AM
Hey Bailey! Always a pleasure to read your comments my friend. You are going gang busters on your blog man! Awesome. In regards to social media, I think I am still getting more visits as a result of commenting, and ironically it’s helpiing the social media side of thngs to as I am Retweeted more etc.
As for your commenting strategy, it is clearly working as I usually break my mouse wheel trying to scroll down to make a comment on your posts (there’s so many comments already!)
Thanks for stopping by Bailey, talk soon
Twitter: socialsammy
June 7, 2010 at 7:18 PM
Crap man, another epic comment thread. Great to see the site is up and running with pictures working ect.
Man awesome tips and wicked that you shared the total viewer stats – I guess you and I have discussed most of this strategy in person. What I’m interested in is not the how you go about your comments but how much time per day/week/month your dedicate to giving all your comment love away?
Sam´s last [type] ..What iThnk We Do
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 7, 2010 at 10:16 PM
That’s a very good question Sam, trust you to come up with the goods! Therein lies the issue my friend. In order to really make the most of a commenting session, I will spend a good 2 solid hours reading, writing, responding and just generally continueing the conversation like it’s going out of fashion. As you know this was fine for the last few weeks since I hated my job and sat there avoiding work by blogging. Now that I am at home and have literally just finished my first full day in front of the PC, I have achieved a shite load man! – but only a few comments on other blogs and following up these ones as it is SO TIME CONSUMING!
But I think in terms of ROI, it is definitely worth it as the connections and friendships you form at this stage will be a valuable investment in the future.
How is work anyway mate? Bit quiet without me harassing you every 37 seconds?
Twitter: socialsammy
June 8, 2010 at 2:29 PM
Haha – yeah man it’s died down a bit, and I’m able to focus a tad more but I am concerned about loosing the blogging vibe now that you’ve left -especially with work becoming more enjoyable and more intense. I’m glad that we’re going to keep in touch though and I’m super excited to hear about your new set-up, it sounds like an awesome step that’s freed you up to focus on what you really love!
Re:ROI – I guess you’ve gotta pick your targets right?? In this post you talk about swimming with the smaller fish…where do we find these smaller fish that are relevant to our niche’s any tips?
I know you started in a blogging program and met loads of connections through that, but what if you have no blogging program – thoughts? Is it just through blog hoping and jumping from comment thread to comment thread?
Sam´s last [type] ..What iThnk We Do
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 8, 2010 at 7:17 PM
Firstly dude, Losing is spelt with one L! (it’s not just you, half the population spell it like that! -ummm, not that it bothers me?) LOL anyway, where was I?
We spoke about this on the phone earlier, but for anyone reading, yeah the ROI worked well when I was in a job I hated, but now that I am working from home and building this brand, every second counts and it certainly makes me question the ROI now. How do I find blogs to post on? Blog HOPPING ONLY! I never use Google, I simply go from blog roll to ‘top blogs of x week’ posts to commentators. ACtually that’s a good point to raise that Jeffrey above pointed out. When someone leaves a really valuable comment, I ALWAYS go to their site. If their comments are this insightful – how good is their content going to be! (certainly something to keep in mind when commenting yourself)
See you next week for a beer mate!
Twitter: bloggersmarket
June 8, 2010 at 2:44 PM
Hi Alex,
50 comments for this post! We should all be so lucky. You’re creeping up on me in the Alexa rankings. Another week and you’ll be by me. Reason? Your comments are great. You focus the personal power of your Blog within your comments. What I term “Comment Posting”. You hold a position of influence within Bloggers Market. All my traffic read your comments! By the time Google gets there, you’re off and running in the index. More and more websites are created to index and highlight comments on Blogs. One example:
http://www.backtype.com/url/bloggersmarket.com
More and more Bloggers are realizing the power of this type of posting. You no longer need to guest post, just focus on your “Comment Posting” and you can have the same effect as Guest Posting on dozens of Blogs.
Just look at the response to this post! It’s a hot topic. Now, I’m going to tie My Blog back in to this post of yours and the following comments, and in a word ……….ZOOM!!!
Jeffrey Morgan´s last [type] ..Just Great!
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 8, 2010 at 7:13 PM
Thanks Jeffrey, that’s the best feedback ever. And you and I have a special connection too. You were after all the welcome wagon and the fire in my belly that reminded me what was possible – and now look where I am!
That’s also really interesting about the backlinks and commenting and you also raise a good point about comment authority. I never consciously thought about it but when I am on some sites, certain commentators will stand out and as such I usually go and visit their site.
Thanks for pointing that out Jeffrey, I completely overlooked this aspect of commenting. See I love it when what I write is proven straight away! (read: commentators provide insight and references and further ideas)
Twitter: bloggersmarket
June 8, 2010 at 10:31 PM
Hey Alex, I forgot to mention that you have reached another milestone! You finally made it on “Blogging Quotes To Live By” with …………… yes, a terrific COMMENT on someone’s Blog.
Everyone who reads this comment is encouraged to view this great section of Bloggers Market.
http://bloggersmarket.com/blogging-quotes-to-live-by/
Jeffrey Morgan´s last [type] ..Just Great!
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 8, 2010 at 11:38 PM
That’s awesome man, and can I just say that the post is a BRILLIANT idea! Utter brilliance right there!
Hey Alex,
My generic praise of your post clearly shows that I read it: “Great post, you’re my hero!”
I tried to cover a couple of your pet peeves there, hope it worked (i.e.: I hope I didn’t look like an ass in the process!).
Seriously though, this is a great post. If you don’t start getting some serious backlink love out of it (I believe someone said “pillar” and I totally agree) then the whole system is a joke!
Rock On
Lee
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 9, 2010 at 7:47 PM
you are banned for life now. Seriously though – awesome man, even you’re attempt at spam comments come out looking genuine. You suck at sucking Lee. hahaha
And yeah, where’s the backlink love? Thanks dude, that’s awesome of you to say.
Twitter: sallyneill
June 10, 2010 at 7:51 AM
Hey Alex,
I have to hold my hands up and say I have the moderation of comments, only because I get so much spam.
Perhaps I should look into methods of reducing that and letting the comments auto display to keep readers happy.
Sally
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 10, 2010 at 9:16 AM
It’s OK Sally I forgive you – but only because I love your site and your style and….you’re awesome.
I think that looking at the amount of comments you get, you don’t need to change anything. It’s clearly working!
Wow, this is the ultimate guide.
I love the smaller fish. Its great to come across a blog that has great content but no comments and a ranking in the millions. Its like finding buried treasure. Just because I may not get traffic from the site doesn’t stop me from commenting. One of the things I like about blogging is the platform to make new friends and connect with the blogging purist who aren’t interested in income of exposure.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 11, 2010 at 2:53 PM
Hey Ralph, thanks mate, really good of you to say!
Yeah I completely agree about the smaller fish and you have it spot on with the treasure analogy. Building relationships is more profitable in the long run anyway, so even if you are interested in income and exposure, it is still a fantastic avenue to take.
Thanks for stopping by Ralph!
Hi Alex,
My name is Nabeel Amin and this is the first post that I read on your blog.
I cam here through the latest post by Dev on ’10 Best Marketing Tips That Will Blow Your Mind’, where he mentions your article on blog commenting.
I comment on a number of blogs, so I thought I should read your post.
Your post was absolutely helpful to me (even though I try to follow each point that you have mentioned.)
As a commenter, I totally agree with the moderation issue. I feel really valued when after the first comment, my future comments are approved automatically. I really love that.
But where moderation is still applied even on my 5th comment, I feel a bit disappointed (I know it is done to combat spam).
Well Nice post and hope to keep visiting your blog!
Kindest,
Nabeel
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 12, 2010 at 12:50 AM
Hey Nabeel, glad you enjoyed the post and really glad you came over to comment! Dev has an awesome blog with some incredible content and I know the post you mean, it’s brilliant isn’t it! In regards to your comment, thanks for the kind words and for giving your feedback on the comment moderation dilemma.
I see you are a Chris Farrell Member. He has some great information there, I was a member for a few months myself. no longer though
Thanks for stopping by Nabeel
Twitter: anna_haller
June 13, 2010 at 1:30 AM
Hi Alex,
I am definitely one of those that love to read other peoples comments as it adds value to great content that’s already provided and shows how well the author has really engaged their readers and like you said have built a community.
I must admit I’m guilty though in subscribing to the comments thread especially on well known blogs just because I love reading the comments but you’re right it gets to be too much and I receive so many!
It is so amazing on what can be built in this wonderful world wide web and how you are able to engage with people all over the world. Relationships is key to me and you can really build that through this method and it’s absolutely fantastic!
Anna
Anna Haller´s last [type] ..Traffic Results For Alex Jeffreys Contest
Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 13, 2010 at 11:02 AM
I have seen your gravatar on many a blog comment thread so I agree that you are approaching commenting the right way. Looking at your traffic results for the AJ comp I can see you have been reaping the rewards of your hard efforts too. I think that even though blog commenting takes longer than any other method, the fact that you are building relationships is paramount at this point anyway, so in the long run the ROI is well worth it.
I agree, I love what can be done on the blogosphere with so called ‘strangers’
Thanks for stopping by Anna, hope to see you again soon.
Alex
Twitter: jonbeebe
June 15, 2010 at 1:07 PM
Hi Alex, awesome tips here. I really like how you included your personal “action plan” for whenever someone makes a comment on your blog–I can definitely tell you follow it.
My favorite piece of advice in this article is to “swim with the smaller fish” because it is VERY important, especially if you are just starting out. There’s not much better motivation to write another post than to know that your little “community” you’ve built will come, read your post, and make a comment on it.
On treating your comments list as a discussion thread, I used to comment with @replies to each commenter, but then Wordpress introduced the “threaded comments” feature which is awesome, really helps keep your comments section organized (and easier to respond to everyone!)
Thanks for the awesome post Alex, keep up the great work!
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
June 16, 2010 at 9:55 AM
Thanks Jon, coming from you that is truly a compliment as you really walk the walk when it comes to building and maintaining relationships in the blogosphere.
YOU keep up the good work man, I’m just trying to keep up with you!
Hey Alex,
After receiving your note a few minutes ago I raced over to find the Ultimate Guide to Effective Blog Commenting that you mentioned. You have provided some great tips for commenting on other blogs, thanks!
I do have a question regarding the Top Commentators Widget mentioned in your post. I don’t see it listed under my widgets. Is there another way to add this item to my blog?
Thanks again!
Yours,
Alice
Well Blog commenting is the useful and effective technique that help to generate traffic increase credibility and readership among different people blogs…..Through blog commenting you can increase your site exposure and awareness among users and the search engine….Thanks for sharing the tips of blog commenting.
I got linked to this page from intelligines.com Alex, thanks for putting this detailed guide together as a reference. I am amazed that your reply threads is like forum. Also I agree that swimming with smaller fishes works.. and we could swim and grow together.
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
July 12, 2010 at 9:59 PM
Hey Kent,
Thanks for checking out some more posts my friend, and glad you found value in this little how to I put together.
Yeah the comments thread here really confirms the power of everything I spoke about in the post itself.
Thanks for stopping by K-CHOW!
Twitter: fitnessphp
August 16, 2010 at 1:46 AM
This comment’s really late, but I just found out about this post via Infopreneur just recently.
Anyway, great guide, Alex; really comprehensive stuff. I do most of the stuff already on there, but I really need to subscribe to the comments thread, as you suggest. I’ve never done this before, but know that I really might need to follow up the stuff I comment once in a while. It’s more of a time management thing, really. There comes a point where I just don’t want to comment anymore and just do other things (like writing a new article, etc).
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
August 16, 2010 at 2:15 PM
Too late! hahah, awesome Noel, glad to see my guest posting over at TIP is working
I can honestly say that you definitely do all that stuff Noel, awesome commentator!
Thanks for coming over man (again)
I liked all of your ideas but one and that is about Top Commentor. Yes its very nice to award your loyal readers but once you install Top commentor plugin there is a chance of much more spam coming in. The reason I say this is becz as you said you auto-approve any further comments whose comments you have approved already. There might be a case where in a a guy posts 3-4 meaningful comment to get in touch with you and then starts spamming so basically there can be a problem. Though I don’t intend to send shock waves anywhere becz of my comment but this just came to my mind.
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
August 30, 2010 at 8:24 PM
Hey that’s a good point man – sure the shock waves will die down soon though brother
Twitter: noaspa
August 29, 2010 at 7:49 PM
Hey Alex,
First of all you’re a lucky man living in Sydney – I was in Austinmer for the summer of 94/5 and had a blast. Nearly broke my neck a couple of times getting dumped in the surf but somehow survived. Well, just come over here from Karl Foxley’s site – and it’s all good, sensible stuff that you write in this post. You also give as good as you get in some of the funnier comments – so fair play to you … and I’m not really surprised you’ve got a popular blog on your hands
Unlikely to be a regular visitor here to be honest – most of my internet time now is spent trying to source interesting, popular bloggers who may, like Karl, support the aspartame/sodium fluoride ( big in Oz) awareness campaign at http://noaspa.blogspot.com/p/noaspa-20.html .
If you’d like to add your site there through a message (etc) you’d be more than welcome, if you’d like to spread the word more like Karl, then you’d be on my Christmas card list ( if I had one)
Seriously , I hope you do
Cheers from Hamburg ( where there’s no surf unfortunately)
Will
Will´s last [type] ..An Exceptional Young Girl
Twitter: buildrankprofit
August 30, 2010 at 8:08 PM
Hahaha, thanks for an awesome comment man, glad you enjoyed the post ..and the comments ( my ego is making me go back and read them again now LOL)
I appreciate your honesty with regards to the blog, and for that I may just come over and say g’day.
Sorry to hear that there is no Surf in Hamburg. There’s probably no Hamburgers either – and that just sucks. take care man!
Twitter: Abhishek_saini1
August 30, 2010 at 3:42 AM
Hi Alex
This is awesome man.I really like it.The points you make is valuable and now going to keep them in my minds while commenting.
Thanks For Sharing
Abhishek
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
August 30, 2010 at 7:41 PM
Hey Ahbishek
Awesome man! Love the energy in your comments brother – you;re already on the right track
Thanks for stopping by my TechnShare brother
Hi Alex
It’s great to meet a fellow Aussie blogger! I found this to be one of the best posts on blog commenting if not the best. I particularly liked the point you raised about treating comments like a forum; I try to engage further/deeper conversations from my commentors as I believe it helps build community. I also approve negative or brash comments because, as you so elegantly put it, “they only reflect negatively on the commenter and if anything they help cement your position of authority.”
Thanks for writing this excellent and valuable post.
Michael
Twitter: buildrankprofit
August 31, 2010 at 9:00 AM
Hey Michael!
Mate, it is always good to see that the Aussies are taking over everything!
)
Thanks so much for your awesome comments man, you either already have the knack – or you’re a really fast learner (since your aussie it has to be the former
Thanks for your awesome comments and for stopping by brother – take care man
Wow! I had know idea that there are rules to commenting. I guess, there are rules to everything though. Thanks for the useful advice. I will make sure that my comments are more meaningful about the person’s content and less about flattery. I thought just being yourself and polite was good enough. Thanks again. http://cleverlychanging.com/?p=106
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
August 31, 2010 at 1:52 AM
Flattery will only get you so far – in fact it can get kind of irritating after a while, especially if there has been no value add, just nice comments the whole time.
Thanks for stopping by and starting what seems to be a great commenting regime
What hosting company are you using for your blog?
Twitter: buildrankprofit
October 6, 2010 at 10:14 PM
Hostgator
Twitter: websiteweekend
October 16, 2010 at 2:40 PM
Top Commentors is smart, and something on my ever-increasing todo list.
Swimming with your own is smart. So is reaching down and giving a hand up. I wrote an article about that a while back, I won’t link but it comes up on Google search for “starfish principle.”
Funny how sometimes I can find things on my own blog searching Google faster than searching my own blog.
Dave Doolin´s last [type] ..7 Scenarios for Blogcasting which one is yours
Twitter: buildrankprofit
October 16, 2010 at 11:27 PM
Dave.
Good to see you mate, and I know what you mean about the ever increasing to do list! OMG…
LOL @ your last point!
Twitter: Jacqueline Gikow
November 6, 2010 at 2:38 AM
I found your blog post on Twitter from a friend of mine who must have been trolling the net. You make some very good points. Especially with the list of commenters. I’m going to look on my blog to see if there is a gadget there to keep track of my regular commenters.
I don’t moderate my comments. I feel it’s just as valid to hear (if they are honest enough) negative feedback as positive. I work very hard on my blog to write thoughtful, informative information, so any comments with thoughtful feedback are welcome. This is my blog: http://jacquelinegikow.blogspot.com
Again, thanks for the tips.
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
November 7, 2010 at 8:07 PM
Hey Jacqueline,
THanks so much for taking the time to not only tweet and share this post, but also to provide such a thoughtful comment. Clearly you either read and digested the post really fast – or you are already well on your way!
Repsect
Twitter: techtavy
November 26, 2010 at 3:09 PM
lol.. I made a list my own, for taking out spam comments in my website. you can see it in my blog. but this post has lot more details.
The post was long. but the format and points were good enough to catch my attention..:)
Twitter: buildrankprofit
November 26, 2010 at 10:45 PM
Ha, awesome man. I’ll have to come over and check it out. Thanks for the feedback on the post Vipin, and for stopping by to comment
You’ve nailed the post, i agree with all your points! I have a done a lot of blogging in the past, and blog commenting was an excellent way to drive traffic. When I looked closely at my analytics I noticed that some of the smaller blogs were sending me the most traffic as well.
Twitter: buildrankprofit
December 22, 2010 at 2:57 AM
Haha Thanks Prageeth!
You are definitely in a niche that requires you to be on the ball most of the time, so good to see you building things up the rightway.
Thanks for stopping by brother!
Twitter: ErikEmanuelli
December 31, 2010 at 4:01 AM
Thanks for the info, Alex.
I was looking for the name of the :
Top Commentators Widget Plug in.
I’ve just installed it.
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January 3, 2011 at 1:28 AM
awesome!
I love it when you finally find the name of ‘that thing you could not think of exactly’
Very Useful stuff! Rate my site ! let me know if your information has helped me thanks
- Larry
Nice information.. Would share it too.
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Twitter: intrahostltd
January 26, 2011 at 4:24 AM
Hello Alex, Very resourceful article. Blog commenting
should be seen as a way to develop your learning knowledge. The
photography works well on the blog. I hope you had a nice year. I
am running a couple of blogs now. Blog commenting is an important
part of your social media community. Twitter is a great example,
you may have several thousand Twitter followers, but if you can’t
engage with them, it’s a wasted effort.
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Twitter: buildrankprofit
January 28, 2011 at 1:07 AM
Im the perfect example of a twitter moron. I have 10k plus followers but get no more traffic then when I had 5k.
Better look into that LOL
an impressing post i must say. i liked that part where you said always start a conversation. conversation is always good for being in touch with your readers.. and all the other points are also good one…
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February 6, 2011 at 8:05 AM
Thanks WebTechLife
I really appreciate all the support and feedback from you of late too I might add – cheers, glad you enjoyed the post – and yes I think it all simply comes down to ‘conversation’
Thanks again my friend
You have mentioned some awesome and effective tips about blog commenting. I think Blog commenting is one of the awesome and easiest way
Thanks alex, I specially like the idea of treating your comments like a forum post, i got pissed of when people delay in replying to relevant comments. imagine the number of comments that follow this post, You must be a comment guru.
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I like the idea of not keeping your regulars waiting and treating the comments section like a forum. You will be surprised of the wealth of knowledge and the amount of enthusiasm and participation of your readers when they put down their two cents on what you’ve written. They learn from you and you’ll learn from them.
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April 24, 2011 at 11:20 PM
That is exactly right Karen.
I am constantly amazed at the overwhelming response I get when I thank someone for teaching me something new. HUmility is a key ingredient to success I believe.
Thanks for continuing the conversation and adding your thoughts Karen
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